I will live my life with those I love, that is, friends and family. I will make my living doing what I love, that is, games, music, code, role playing, dance, graphic design, acting. I will join and help to thrive those communities that love me, that is, contra dancers, MUSHers, geeks, roleplayers, liberals, artists. I will not waste time hurting those I don't care about, or hurt myself by hurting those I do care about. I will watch for and leave unhealthy situations as soon as possible. I will take no new step that puts me further from my goals. I will remember that, in the end, I decide what is important. I will be happy.